Bernhard Ludwig
John Gray, a noted author, has come up with a funny metaphor to explain the differences in communication between husband and wife. His theory explains how the men from Mars and women came from Venus to Earth. The men have lived thousands of years all alone on Mars. Yes, that sounds a little funny. If only because of the reproductive issue, but we just take it out Sun At some point ", we have men with our telescopes," looking over to Venus and the women for us to Mars. The men have pressed her eye to the pipe and sighed, "My God, are the loving," and the women with their eyes are glued to the tube and have raved: ". My God, are the strong," One day, together they conquered the Earth, but while men and women have completely forgotten that they come from completely different planetary language roots. We men have worked on Mars, played us involved in sports and driven a lot of nonsense. Since it was not necessary to talk about feelings. If we had a problem, we crawled into our cave and have been thinking. And once we had solved the problem yourself by intellectual reflection, we left the cave again and back into play.
Then the men no one has become a nuisance. No one asked them: "What did you? "-" What are you thinking? "-" I feel however, that you have something. "-" Let's be about it! "-" Now's say at last "On Mars, it is for men in Rules have been to communicate problem-solving. Therefore, I advise all fellow males: If a woman has a problem, tell her the hell not a solution! You want to talk about the problem. Just talking! If the woman tells her husband, for example: "I'm having trouble with my boss," you tell her for goodness sake, do not like the solution, by her advice: "So what, then just cancel." For Women Premature proposals punish worse than premature ejaculation. Learn how you prefer the Venus language. The part of the tools of advanced man - not just for private sexual pleasure but also for business. As she explains, then, they have trouble with the boss, his answer would be a good answer if it is, "Yes, I know well .- It is so me gone. -. And I know someone who's just going "to perfect, go with a newspaper as a shield in a cafe crawl and then approach a women's table. Listen to these ladies round with two hours of individual attention too long - without intervening. Although it is difficult. Stay calm while listening to behind your newspaper. You will notice that women can talk about two hours problems without proposing a solution. Only at the end it becomes concrete. Some men are crazy here, others began to nod automated ...
I wish you much fun practicing on vacation ... see you once tried to find time for it.
your Bernhard Ludwig
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