Bernhard Ludwig
The Frankfurter Professor Lukas Moeller has found that after four years of living with the same woman, in the same apartment , has reduced the meaningful talk time with their partner on four minutes per day. It makes sense for the partnership does business and budget discussions excluded. You may think, four minutes is not much. In order to get along, couples are forced to practice lean communication. For this it is useful to already save on the phrases. Words such as "Please" "Thank You", "hello" and "bye" are a waste of time robbers. Why say every day, good morning? You see it when it gets light. A woman who is partout on greetings can tell the man: "So when I come, it means Hello, 'and when I go away, you see it anyway."
So stick unnecessarily long parting from loved ones on. When they was still in love, has an adoption in the car took a long time ... until there re-tightened and adjusted, was a time was used. But such behavior can not take in a marriage. As a man, one wonders also whether it is really necessary to comment on every dish. If you do not scold, that's praise enough, I think. What woman does finally to the fairness to discuss a botched chips reasonable? Instead, they studied the problem on the other side. Namely, when he points out that the steak is burnt, poisoned them right back five times, "Aaaaah, the chips you do not like." - "So what? But I never know when you come home. "-" No one helps me in the household. "-" Your mother has completely cleared up. "-". Everything gets hung up on me, "
One wonders however, where this dramatic difference in the communication between man and wife coming? But I'll tell you in my next blog ;-)
soon
your Bernhard Ludwig
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